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How can people fall in 'love' so quickly? As far as my previous exploration in to the subject goes; you can't. I will allow you lust but really? Love? So soon? It's all so common now to throw the word love around until you've lost count of how many times you've declared it. We say we 'love' people even if we've never met them, we say we 'love' people after meeting them a few times, we say we 'love' someone just to get them in to bed, we say we 'love' someone when we get those butterflies.
I like love. I don't love love because love hurts and I don't appreciate things that hurt me.
Time and time again people fall in to a relationship to then suddenly admitting their undying love for one another, how they can see themselves marrying the other person and so on and so forth. Yawn. Please refrain from telling me.
Love is tricky because being able to decipher what is lust and what is love is an actual art; of which you need to have practiced a few times before you claim to feel it. Love makes you sick. Love makes you giddy. Love makes you feel on top of the world but at the same time completely vulnerable. Love is...
Who knows?
Relationships of people who were 'in love' fairly quickly appear to end, fairly quickly too. Go figure. Rather than ironing out the creases in their relationship they give up at the first hurdle because the wonderful, honeymoon period has come crashing to Earth with an almighty bang.
So, after all of that, what I am trying to say is:
If you're in love, tell them. If you aren't sure, keep it quiet. If you haven't been dating that long, the chances are it isn't love.
Hannah x
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